Better to ramble to us than her. Keep it business like. From what i have read, the WAS tend to try and change their appearance because that is a quick change to get away. I would not think twice on it. But I hear ya. My WAS decided she was going to start dressing nicer and stuff that I had asked her to do during the M but never did. Oh well, nothing you can do about it. As far as the family sitch... it is hard, very hard sometimes. Do something to pamper you and the kids. go out for ice cream or something, something fun. Bounce a ball ;\) but seriously, stay positive for the kids.

Don't let the wife pull you down. You are a stronger person and are actively trying to better yourself. If you have stopped DBing, start new. Read the books again, re-read your first posts and try to gauge any changes. We are still here for you Mike. Keep it going.

Ken
Me: 37
Her: 38
Son: 8 (spina bifida)
Son:2
M 6/24/1994
S 1/21/2008
Original Sitch