Christa and HIC, did you both really believe it when and if you said ILYBNILWY? And what were you thinking during the months of separation? Were your H's ever mad at you during that phase and did it push you further away?
I can not help but wonder about these things. I swear to you it was like a totally different person had invaded my wife's body. On occasions I see her behind the eyes of the stranger she is now. I really think the edge of the fog is lifting but I think it is still pretty thick in the center of the storm.
