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You don't know how right you are!!!


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Your confidence is VERY attractive, Neece.

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Gee thanks, the flattery does wonders for my PMA, I guess we're all winners!


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Originally Posted By: neecy22
Wearing a dress and heels today, doing a lot for my PMA, I am sure H will question who I'm wearing it for, hmm..... ME!


You go, girl!


Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
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Originally Posted By: neecy22
Wearing a dress and heels today, doing a lot for my PMA, I am sure H will question who I'm wearing it for, hmm..... ME!


Sure enough this exact conversation took place. And I actually answered me and he looked at me like I was nuts. He always asks me that and I always tell him I wear it for him.

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Niiiiiiice . . .

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I sometimes am a little silly when I am in a good mood and today at work I went into my boss' office to ask her something but asked her what the dealio was. She went off into some hand pumping street talk, and asked if I watch American Idol which I do not. I work in finance for the gov't, she is an accountant type this was really on the wild side. Later in the day I sent her a question by email so I put some of the street talk in it that she had used. Then at the bottom I said, excuse the silliness I am just in a really good mood today. She responded she has noticed my mood being better and better lately and she is really happy for me.

I replied, well its not for any other reason except for I'm working on me. You can't change anyone else. She sent back well you sound like Dr. Phil(her personal favourite) only you can make you happy.


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Ok, new day, new problem. Well its not really a problem and actually is kind of silly but annoying none the less. I am basically posting here so everyone can tell me it means nothing and have a laugh and I will stop thinking about it.

I have slept in the same bed with my H for all of the last 6 1/2 years and the better part of the last 10.

He has talked on occasion in his sleep and a few times yelled out. However, in the last 3 weeks he has taken to moaning, every single night. Now during ML he is silent, but it sure sounds to me like that is what is going on. - that or he is being eaten by a monster. It is enough to wake me up and maybe 6 months ago I would have found it a lot funnier. I know this is not a true problem, my H is at home in my bed, but come on already, every night!


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Don't know what to say Neecy. My wife has slept on the couch since Sept. Heck, I'd kill to be able to listen to her dream even if it was about OM.

I think sometimes the reason WW sleeps on the couch is so she can take care of herself ( ) while dreaming about OM.


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Originally Posted By: neecy22
I know this is not a true problem


You said it.

They're just dreams, Neecy. Nothing more. ;\)


Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
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