Quote: Hind sight is 20/20. Maybe an affair would have snapped my Ex back into reality. Maybe she would have realized that If there's no dinner at home then I'm going out to eat. Mulligan, I was not clear, she needs emotional intamacy sp. to want sex, the other thing, when babies come, female hormones will be out of whack for a couple of years.
So you need to change during these times, they will come out of it, unless the guy is not able to adapt.
That is why you see women here leaving their marriages when they have a 3 month old baby. The guy did not know how to handle the changes.