Quote: I had three choices. 1. do without 2. have an affair, 3. convince her to change. Well I did the first choice and I regretted it. Any woman who puts her needs above everybody's is just downright selfish. I'm sure she could have said the same for me, but I wasn't forcing her to have sex, yet she was forcing me to do without. Sorry dude, you weren't issued the manual for this stuff, it is obvious you did the wrong thing. My 2 cents, your thinking influence her, and it just got worse.