And just because he calls when he walks around the corner from his other baby's mama's house making his empty promises to you doesn't mean you have a marriage. It has been a long time since you have had a marriage, hasn't it, Emily?
Do we need a review of all the things he has done to you since you first came to this board? More of us old posters to you have returned I see. I'm sure we can paint you a real clear picture before you get those rose-colored glasses back on.
Emily, all Kevin's smoke and mirrors aside, you have outgrown that boy. I said that purposefully. He is NOT a man. Look around these boards for examples of what a good man is. Kevin is light-years away and you have two little girls that are in need of a good, strong, healthy and responsible male role model in their lives. Kevin is none of those things. The more I think about it, the more I think you should keep walking the road you've been on the last several months. Take care of yourself and your girls. Meet someone when you are ready. But unload Kevin and his baggage once and for all.
I was waiting for you Amy. I knew what you would say, I knew it would be sound. You say the things I NEED to hear. Time and time again Amy, I just want to say THANK YOU!!!
I have tried the last restort one LAST chance, just a few weeks ago. Set down my rules, and he has broken everyone of them in just under 3 weeks. I think now it's time to quit making that empty threat, I think it's time I play hardball. I think I am off the merry-go-round, and my head is still spinning, I'm still adjusting but my path is clear.
We are working overtime, and I am tired, I'll try to update you guys SOON! Thank you all, more later!
I am faltering, I know what the wise choice is. I know what I should do.. yet I am having trouble putting it down and walking away. I am not looking for another heart-break, but I am not ready to quit fighting.
E23-Don't know tons about your sitch, other than you are doing fine. Self-doubt is a normal thing. If you didn't have any doubt or question yourself occaisonally, that would be odd.
Acknowledge these feelings and try to decide why you are having them and what is the best course of action for you. What do you want is what is important......its ok to be selfish.
Me: 44 S: 17 and 7 Final-6-13-08 I once went to a psychic who told me I would soon feel cheated......
