Quoting Mulligan:
I'd love to meet a married as you decribed. I've been divorced since April 2002 and am not ready for any type of relationship or commitment. Yeah, I've had girlfriends, but they wanted R, I didn't. So there.

For what it's worth, there are plenty of unmarried women out there who are eager for hot sex without commitment. You just need to be honest about what you are looking for, and you'll hook up with a like-minded woman. If you come on like you are Mr. Nice Guy, the only women you will find are those that want an LTR.

If I were you I would avoid dating women who are in a committed relationship, married or otherwise. In my situation, I put out a classified ad that said "I am married and I need sex". The single girls who were looking for no-strings fun just were not interested, so it was married women or nothing. But in your case, you are exactly what a lot of the single girls are looking for -- sexual release with no drama.

Then when you are ready to try again for a life partner, be very open and honest about who you are and what you need in a relationship. In other words, don't make yourself out to be someone you aren't just to seem more attractive. If you reveal your true self that will strike a chord with some woman, and you are much more likely to live together harmoniously.