It sounds to me like your H is going through MLC like I think mine is. I read somewhere that they become the opposite of who they were, good fathers become poor ones, etc. I am hoping this is just a stage H will eventually pass through and maybe your H as well? My H has recently started spending more time with the kids since he moved out, so I am taking that as an encouraging sign. Hopefully your H will pass through the stages and start acting as a more mature adult. (They seem to act like teenagers I think when in MLC.) \:\) Karen

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