Yup know the butterfly feelings! At least you know he still makes your tummy tickle He might not have lost that for you or if he did you can bring them back.
I think you could wear a little make up. And since you NEVER wear makeup it would be a 180 for you. Maybe a lttle powder, blush and mascara. Does you H like it when you wear makeup? Maybe wear a shirt that brings out the colour of your eyes or a cute pair of jeans. Some little thing he might notice but not big enough to scream "look at me".
You can do it! Jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
He might not have lost that for you or if he did you can bring them back.