I'm travelling on business now with some time to kill, so I thought I would update my current situation after a month and a half.
Things are getting better and better, slowly but surely. My wife and I are becoming closer, and argue very rarely. We have been enjoying a more normal sex life (twice a week or so). I now classify myself as "hungry" as opposed to "starved". I dream some day of being over-fed, but hungry is a good state to be in most of the time.
One thing that has been really helping are the dates we are going on once a week or so. One time we just went to the book store to browse and drink coffee. Another time we had dinner at a quiet little place. We enjoy each other's company, and more often than not we come home and just go to sleep. But maybe the next night or so, we'll be intimate.
There was a bit of a breakthrough the other morning. My wife actually was feeling a bit adventurous and we played around a bit, instead of just following our normal recipe. We both really enjoyed it, so maybe she's starting to loosen up a bit from the old feelings of pressure and inadequacy.
Anyway, I just wanted to report that the love-light is still shining at our house.
