JM - I know you think I'm crazy and hard-headed but out of 5 ex-girlfriends, I'm still VERY close (friends) to 4 of them and not only send them cards but also gifts (3 are in my hometown, 2 are married and the only single one is my best friend). The out of town one is living with her girlfriend. My two ex-boyfriends & I do not stay in contact (they are married). I just hug them and have a few moments of friendly conversation when I run into them.
