I hope I catch you on here this evening! I love that you plan to call your H- that will be a great move. Perhaps you can make a judgement about asking him for a drink casually depending how the conversation goes? As long as you keep it light and non-pressured I think you'd be find. Even saying something like 'it'd be nice to catch up in person some time, maybe over a drink' might work- not asking directly, but planting a seed so he knows you'd be OK with meeting for a drink.....
((((Essie)))) I am rooting for you. Is H coming over to do the house stuff today?
L.xx
PS Thankyou for being so empathetic about the contact with H at the beginning thing. It was horrible, but things are gradually improving. Let's wait to call it success though- I am always worried about getting ahead of myself (think it's the scientist bit of me)!
Walk on, walk on, with hope in your heart. And you'll never walk alone.
