Thank you..that's a very interesting point. I really don't think he wants to leave me at this time, because...where would he go? His OW will not leave her (rich) H, and he says that even though his Dr says our M is bad for him, he still wants to stay and try. Problem is, I don't see him trying very hard. He says that if he gives up OW, he might as well die. He has transferred our whole married relationship from me to her, then accuses me of not caring. He has been working a lot of extra days lately, and I have to assume he is lying and spending the time with her. She has been away for 3 weeks and now she has just come back and suddenly he has to work extra shifts. I have caught him lying before and he has not stopped, I'm sure, I just haven't confronted him about it. I'm tired and I want to forget about this for a while. I have been GAL, and due to the infidelity diet, am 30+ lbs lighter and looking good. I am looking for and IC, so that I have someone to talk to, maybe join a social group for the betrayed so I don't feel alone. I would still like to see his psychiatrist, maybe just to give him a more balanced picture.
