Have you considered that your H may be in MLC? His behavior sounds so much like mine, but I was very focused on his A and his waffling on whether or not he wanted to come home. Then someone sent me a link to a post here on DB (I had already been posting on this site, and the link came from an outside source - strange coincidence? I think not).
Maybe you should take a minute and read it; you may recognize alot of your H in the description. I know it helped me immensely, since I was very confused, hurt, angry and nothing made sense. After reading the post, it was like I had been working on a jigsaw puzzle w/out knowing what it was supposed to look like, and someone finally gave me the box w/ the picture on it. The puzzle in my sitch still needs to be put together, but at least now I have some idea of what it might look like.
I really hope it helps you. I so understand what you are feeling, and my D has said the same thing about not having a daddy and her daddy not loving her. ((((Hugs to you))))
FA
What does not destroy me, makes me stronger.
FA:43, H:42 D:7 M:10 yrs, T:24 yrs EA:?, PA:1/06 S:3/07 EA/PA ongoing Aborted attempt to move home 07/08
