Seriously! It makes me laugh. The OW in my sitch believes EVERYTHING that comes out of my H mouth like its gospel and he does the same with her. I have pointed out more than once, "OK, You are both liars or you wouldn't be in this situation." The saddest part is the lies they tell themselves to make the sitch ok.

Made for each other? What woman in her right mind would want a man that cheats on his wife, neglects his kids, now lives with his mom and is a compulsive gambler? OOOOOOOOOHHH what a catch, I'll bet all the eligible ladies out there are just lining up for their chance at that! The saddest part is, part of me does still want him, but its pretty ugly right out there in the open.
What man wants a woman that cheats with married men, neglects the child she already has, is pregnant with a married man's child, and is also a compulsive gambler that lives with her parents?

The OW sent my H several txt messages on Easter trying to make him feel guilty for spending it with me and our kids...hello? She was going to the casino and he could just play "Happy Family" with me and his kids. WHATEVER!!!!
They are both prizes alright. Just a little bitter today...

Last edited by grumpyeby; 03/26/08 09:28 PM.

M:39
H:39
K:S14;D8
T:22yr
M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
12/12/08 his
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Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option