I posted in my other thread the question "Does it get any easier?". Apparently the answer is no, not really.
I think that as long as you love your H and doesn't do anything to really make you not love him the butterflies might be there for a long time. I was wondering last night as I lay in bed when one actually learns to sleep in the middle of the bed and not on his/her own side. After so long together I guess it's only natural to sleep where you always slept.
I think there are a lot of little things that are hard to get over. But on a whole I think we can all learn to let go but keep the door open for them when and if they decide to come home.
Keep your chin up!
Jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
