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[Jamesjohn]

It's great too see that you have hope, WNC! Good things CAN happen!

Hopefully, your book will be arriving soon. In the mean time, keep your eyes open for any small, positive things that are happening in your relationship that will help get the ball rolling.

Now is about the time to start setting some small goals for your relationship. What things do you want to start to see happen?

I know, wild sex every night, right?!

Start out smaller. Maybe things like, "she'll let me touch her shoulder without flinching", or "she'll let me kiss her cheek without backing away", etc., etc.

There's a bunch of goal-setting threads here that will give you some good examples. Throw in some of your thoughts on them here, and we'll help you work through them.

Hang in there! I think that things are looking up for you and your marriage already!!