Spoke with W briefly when she came in this eve, she was on the phone to her mum and talking about moving there, I overheard her talking about the issues such as having no room to put all her stuff or her clothes (she has 2 full wardrobes) and being able to afford it as she will have to keep paying for our house and her friends are miles away etc. I am hoping that some of the reality of her decision is starting to hit her.
She called me down for a quick chat before she went out and basically just said that she probably won't move out as she can't afford it. She was off out this eve with one of her girlfriends and she will be staying away but back early tomorrow morning.
My thoughts on this:
I want to save our marriage and relationship BUT I WILL NOT HAVE MY WIFE BEING 'SINGLE' AND USING OUR HOUSE AS A HOTEL OR SOMETHING. I believe either she stays and we work on our marriage OR she leaves and sorts herself out, if she can't afford it then tough! its her decision and she has 'thought about it for a while' and 'planned it' so shoudl have thought about these sorts of things.
It is either her taking the p!ss somewhat or a more subtle way of maybe bridging our relationship and again coming back to me, our marriage and relationship.
How should I view this? if anyone can provide any guidance or insight I would be grateful as I am not sure how to progress.
Cheers all
Gavin
Me: 30 W: 31 T: 9.5 yrs M: 4 Yrs No Kids, 1 cat Had a bad year Turmoil started 22/Jan/08 Seperated, same house 30/Jan/08 Wanted D: 2/Feb/08 Going downhill and towards D with nothing stopping her!
