Well, she asked me to go get food because she wasn't up to shopping. So I asked her for money. She then says "Never mind I'll get the stuff on my way back from massaging". So I explain that I can do it, she'll reimburse me later. She gets more angry.
I explained that I though we agreed that she would buy groceries. She says 'when did we agree to that?'. I said you have been doing it and you said something to that effect.
I said "I pay for 80% of everything else so we can still live here". She says "Yeah, and I'm paying the insurance, and now I made a car payment! I don't make much money and I'm never going to get out from living under you and your control!"
She was crying, and I got mad and said "Well you know, I've been living in a depression for a long time and you kicked me when I was down, do you think it's been easy for me to pick myself up from that? This whole thing was a really bad idea!".
By now she was in the car so she drove away angry. I'm sorry but I have mixed feelings. I'm scared because I fear a negative response coming from her, and I'm angry because she doesn't seem to think she is responsible for FOOD unless she has money? She's not responsible for anything but her credit card bills I guess?
She has to 'get out from under me?' Geeze man, I give her so much SPACE it's incredible. But she's under my financial control?
She could just walk away I guess. Maybe she will.
She told me what I should make for dinner and stuff so she's not planning on coming back tonight.
