The Good, the Bad, and the Funny One Year Update

[mkultra]

Hello to new friends and old. It has been one year since I kicked out my husband for his anger and depression which was actually compounded by his affair and things are going well for me and my kids. My husband has also been kicked out of his mistress's place (four months ago) so he has found a small apartment and a new job in town. He sees the kids more regularly but the child support is shoddy at best. He is still angry and depressed but he feigns politeness but there is still resentment on his part. He seems so negative about my positive life style so what can I do about tha?. I know divorce busting works because if I wanted him to come back home he would but he has been so destructive with his life and health that I no longer want to save this marriage. He is probably now 5'8 and 110 lbs, about 30 lbs less than me and I wear a size 6 in woman's! I still do not know why he looks so awful, Grave's disease, anorexia, drugs, emo, who knows but he still dresses like loon in half shirts and high heeled boots! A lot of people assume he is a gay drug abuser. Who knows? I am embarrased for my kids when we are in public togeter. Sorry but Michele does say that most marriages should be saved unless there is abuse and I must say this could be abuse because he acts like a real pr%&k most of the time.

Everything else is great though. I am calming down my libido by staying single for now. Men are just too complicated and I want to get my house in order. We still have not filed and it has been one year. I have kept my peace about his adutry until today. He was so meanspirited about my parenting skills and my S3's attitude about eating and dressing that I finally told him off.

I said, "You have shown no contrition for what you have done to this family. Every night I have to listen to nasty drunken stories about your gross behavior chasing after young girls , acting like you are 19 in the back of some adult boutique. How dare you negate me in my house in front of my kids." I did it. Good for me.

BTW I work in our family business which is a niteclub where he used to work and pick up on young girls unbeknownst to me and my mother. He then started living with a girl almost half his age who worked down the street in an adult boutique. So yeah, he flaunted his disgusting affair practically in our street windows. jerk.