and I know what you mean. While WW and I were at WDW in Oct she was sneaking off to TM OM every chance she could. I even saw one of the text's he sent her the night they had a phone "fight" (because WE were having such a good time) and it about made my stomach turn (I guess it was a make up sex kind of TM).
I forwarded that TM to my phone and I use it to pump my resolve when I feel myself slipping.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.