Next Steps for W2G (3rd Thread)

[phbear316]

Ok W2G

Don't mean to jump on you journaling, but holy cow, are you sure your not in my head? do you have my house bugged when i talk to myself?

This has been exactly how I have been feeling as of late. I don't see these things as being bad, such as the homebody, thing. Its not being lazy, I enjoy my down time but not to an extreme. I am introverted I would not say either of us are anti-social, (can tell that from you posts, and my gut feeling about you.) We are set in our comfort zone i think.

I also to a point don't put myself out there, since i have no girlfriends, just some friends from work that is it. I have been hurt by friends those who i thought were my best friends have only hurt me.

I think this is the way i have always been, and it just gets to me when I am told I need to get out, i need to get a life, (i don't mean to sound angry about this, that is not the point) I am happy, i did/do enjoy being home with H. He never said that he wanted to go out and do things, I thought he was happy like me. But so it seems not so much. I just wish besides the sex and 3 kids, what else does she have. My mom told me she must be a total opposite of you. She may be right.

I know change is good, but how do we change, if maybe deep down inside we are happy?

Sorry W2G, did not mean to jump in you journaling. I just read your post and had to reply while it was on my mind. Jenny says she is reading a book that is changing her life, i asked her for the title, maybe it would be a book we both could be interested in.

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