I know of at least 3 times where I saw text messages from OM apologizing to WW for treating her so bad (mostly when she was having a fun time with me. Imagine that, a wife having fun with her husband and the OM is mad).

He also lied to her about many things, not the least of which is that he was going to talk to his wife about divorce so he and WW could be together, but he never did. Of course, WW lied to him about many things also.

That's what I'll never understand. How can waywards lie and lie to each other and still think that they are made for each other? Excuse me, would you want to marry someone who had no problem lying to you and their spouse so they could carry on an affair? Hello? Kettle, this is pot calling.


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.