Popping over from Newbies...seperated 2 months

[mkultra]

I think it does get harder before it gets easier and then there are eruptions and the real roller coaster. I also have a six year old and I put her into therapy immediatley. It has been easier because of this forum and the books. Staying positive and playing nice has been very beneficial. I had to swallow a lot of BS but it has helped to just talk to a therapist or pro marriage people.