I have thought and thought ....why would he simply not just say to me...I'm married. Instead I would get an email saying...I've thought about your suggestion on moving back in the house, I'm sorry, but I don't think it will work, we are barely able to speak on the phone. Got that one a week ago.
I guess my conclusion would be that he was hiding it in hopes that I would sit here and twiddle my thumbs waiting for him to come home.
Even before I found this out I had sent him several of those "Strictly Business" emails. I had already set an appointment with my attorney for Tuesday (yesterday). I had no clue I would be adding additional information. I've said it before....God seems to hand me signs, this one he smacked me back into reality with.
Amy.....you said something very significant, much more than you know....he will eventually look down and see his signature. Yes, thats very true. I had to remind him of that yesterday.
Things are not at all good for him. He signed the mediation agreement that was quickly drawn up at the mediators office. When my attorney had a more "Formal" agreement typed up, he refused to sign it, we back and forthed hearings until eventually I said ENOUGH and we used the one the mediator drew up. So that one is the "Official" one. The one and only he is legally binded to.
It's going to "hurt" him alot. He was spitting venom yesterday when he called me. I'm actually kinda worrie. I'm sure he had no idea this would happen. Neither did I, until yesterday.
Jack...your right. Sometimes a little drama from them makes you feel like they are still there with you. That they have not completely disappeared. But I do not want nor desire anymore of this from him. He is going to have a big wake up call very soon, and I want to be nowhere near when it happens.
This is getting a bit scary for me. He is nowhere near normal anymore.
Change the Policy. Allow PM's Free all of us.
Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice!
