Wow, amazing similarities. She goes out with people who are in their 20s (and early 30s), single, and with no kids. There are married people in her class but they rarely go out with them. And somehow she doesn't see anything wrong with the picture. She says this readily to people who ask her when they go out, "What about your kids? What does your husband say?" "Oh, my husband will watch them." And if pushed further, she'll say, "My husband and I are having problems and we're going through a separation right now." Then on with the fun.