Quoting WhyNotCheat: We have discussed this over the years, and we both agree that when we go on vacation, we really connect. We both love to travel and explore new places, we have no worries about cooking, cleaning, bills, kids' homework, work stress, etc. And we have great sex, usually twice or more each week. I'd go for twice a night, but I am ecstatic about twice a week.
The glow will last for a week or two after the vacation. Then it's back to our normal patterns.
Well hell, dude! We got your problem solved right here!
Just go on a vacation every other week!
Well, ok, you probably can't work that out, so let's explore this a bit.
we have no worries about cooking, cleaning, bills, kids' homework, work stress, etc.
Any way to relieve these worries while you're not on vacation? Would your finances allow you to hire a sitter, maybe a house-keeper for a night or two a week? Would the school be able to help provide a tutor to help with the homework? Maybe a college student?
Prepare meals ahead of time for the week, so you can just pop them in the oven and be done? Maybe share the cooking responsibilities? Not "you one night, and her the next", but both working in the kitchen together? Spend some time together, and cut the work in half, both at the same time?
How can you work "together" to help relieve the stress of the everyday stuff? How can you both get things done together, save some time, and be able to take some little "mini-vacations" together?
How about doing some traveling over the internet? Spend some time surfing the sites for places you want to go on your next real vacation?
What things can you two do to help relieve the burdens of everyday life, and take yourselves to the place where you're at when you're on "vacation"? The place where you can really enjoy each other, and connect again? Even if for only an hour or two at a time?
JJ
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