WAW...now the LBS Part 2

[christarn]

Thanks HIC, I'm just reluctant right now to ask him to do anything. A few weeks ago I asked when his overtime was finished, (which I think it is now) if he could make some time for me. He said via a text, I don't know, I've got to much s*it to do. So I'm just afraid if I push too much, he will retreat even more.

I liked your thread on the other board. I agree with you, I wish some more "experienced" Db'ers would have/will post on it. I really wish the moderators, or one of the coaches would put their two cents in. Or some actual people who have "busted" their D.

I am still optimistic and positive. I feel that he has a lawyer on retainer and could pull the D trigger at any point, and he hasn't. He has also be curtious lately, which is a positive. Another oddity, he showed up at my local pub(one I frequent 3 blocks from my house) note that in our 10 years together, he didn't frequent there. It was strange to me, as I was going with a friend to get groceries and saw him walking in. It was last friday, and yes he could have been having a beer with the guys from work, but I didn't see any work vehicles in the parking lot. I just found this to be an odd behavior. And the fact that I drove by at the exact time he was getting out of his truck and walking in. I truly believe, God, gives us signs of hope....to me it was His way of saying, I am slowly bringing your H closer to you....just one of my thoughts!

Thanks for your thoughts and replies. It's nice to chat with someone who has walked in my shoes. And who knows how it feels, the emotions and thoughts and craziness that goes with all of this.

hugs,
Christa