Do not worry about him, nor feel sorry, nor kind, nor responsible.
Now is the time for accountability.
No need to be vindictive, petty or small.
Hold him to the standards established by the court. And if those are too much for him, boo-fing-hoo.
You're 39 the whole world is before you, he had a chance to make nice with you, and down the road if he is truely honest and consistent, maybe you can give him another chance. But for now, he needs to learn a life lesson, and you are part of the learning process.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
