Let's say my fantasy came true and we spent 30 minutes every day having sex. That's just slightly more than 2% of the day. Do the math. And that is for a very hot and heavy sex life.

Wow, dude! I guess this is hot and heavy!! I DID do the math, and that 2% figure doesn't leave you any time for sleep!!

You ARE quite an animal!!!

I love how smart she is, but man does she know how to quickly shut down my logic.

I'm a little bit confused here, my friend. You are throwing some heavy "logical" stuff here with this statement, and quoting some "logistical" percentage values, when the subject at hand seems to deal with "passion".

"Passion and emotions" very rarely mix well with "logic and reasoning". They are 2 different critters.

Do you always deal with your wife on a "logical and reasonable" level? If so, might that be the reason that you're not getting any "passion and emotion" from her?

Or, might she be the "logical and reasonable" partner now?

I'm seeing a big imbalance here. When were the times that the 2 of you were more connected on both an emotional, and a physical, level?

What was going on when you both seemed to be more satisfied with your relationship as a husband and wife?

What things were you doing then, and what things was she doing?

JJ

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