Eva, seeing and talking with a solicitor will NOT "get the ball rolling" as only YOU can do that.(Or your h). You are allowed to speak to a solicitor and not have him/her take any legal action. You said the business is all in your h's name, and that you want to put yours on it, and that is something to tell the solicitor BEFORE you put your name on it. B/C then you'll likely also be on the hook for debts-some of which you may even be aware... so think about that.
Sorry sweetie, but I really sense that you are trying to "show him" or "teach him a lesson" in this. Maybe not consciously. But refusing to talk to a L and yet insisting on business changes and title changes is odd to me. You're forcing things now, and without the benefit of legal counsel. As others said so succinctly, chillax!!
As for his confusion...it's abundantly clear that he is confused. Hence your need for some respite from the texts that don't comport with his actions...etc. Sometimes there are bad storms / earthquakes in life, and the only thing you can do is stand in the doorway holding onto the frame, to wait for it to pass. But this too, shall pass. Really. Good luck, ((( j- ))
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