My wife actually told me in all seriousness and sincerity that she didn't want me to leave but that I should get a lover to get my sexual needs met because as much as she wants me to be happy she can't help me with that area. She says that she's forced herself to have sex with me thinking that "just doing it" would get her in the mood. In those moments she says she hates it, she feels like she's consenting to rape.
