MM on your trip just keep doing what your doing. if you play the Anniversaryu card you may get discuraged if she does not respond in a way your were looking for. you already ML ( something i would kill for with mmy W ) so the romantic /phisical part is there so dont worry about being viewed as a friend. but BEING a friend is what won her over in the first place all those years ago. like you have said let her bring up relationship, while you bring up you friendship to her.. just my 2 cents
