He is doing all he can do at the moment. I think the most important thing has been commmunication. At first he is afraid to talk but I encourage him, then he tells me it is okay to state my feelings or what I am thinking and he listens and says he understands.
Then he says how much better he feels.
THat has been the pattern of our communication since he has been home.
It is still going to be a long road to recovery.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
