I can't remember if I've posted to you before, but have followed your situation for a while.
I think you are an incredibly strong woman. Your patience and unconditional love for your H are exceptional.
You sound tired. Make sure you are taking care of you, not just H. Doesn't sound like he's capable yet of taking care of you, so you've GOT to.
Hang in there. You are an inspiration to me. Your sitch gives me hope. I am praying for you.
{{{hugs for SF}}}
Me:40, xH:41 M:19 T:21 D14, S10, D6 IDLYA bomb:12/22/06 OW bomb (21 yr. old employee):12/23/06 H move out 2/07, OW move in 5/07 D papers served 6/07 D final Nov. 26, 08 :-(