If I were to set boundaries, he would think I was treating him like a child.

Also, he does not act drunk at all when he drinks like that. To him, it is like drinking water or soda.

He is an adult and if I do anything like set a boundary, which I do not want to do, this will push him elsewhere. It is his money he uses to buy the beer, not mine.

The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19