HIC, I think things sound good in your sitch, him saying we is for sure a positive sign. It's a baby step in the right direction at least! And from the way things sound you've made a few baby steps, almost enough to make a grown up step!!!LOL!! What type of surgery did your H have? Sorry nosey nurse here! I have done research on different pain medications-I may be able to help you/him. The joking around thing sounds like a good thing also!! I know exactly what you are talking about when you said "fire breathing dragon lady"!! I think at times my H remembers that person in me, and not only does he, but his family reminds him of her and what she did to him also....lovely huh!

As for my sitch we take a couple steps forward and a couple steps back. He was texting me left and right a coule weeks ago, now nothing. I did text him and wish him and the puppies a happy easter. He responded and we mesgd back and forth for about 45 minutes. I thought that was good. He sent me 2 pictures of the pups, I haven't seen them in 8 weeks, I miss them. I thought that was sweet, I did ask him to do it, and next thing I knew, two pics on my phone. Then yesterday I received a phone call that was for him. So I msg him with the information, he returned my msg and said thanks. I do look at it this a month ago when I text him, he wouldn't text back, so at least he is texting back....small step!!!

I just don't know how to get him to want to move forward, I feel like we are totally stuck in this rut and can't get out...it sucks! any suggestions???

(hugs)
Christa


H-32
Me-29
T-10years
M-4yr (10/04)
Me- WAW 1/07
I filed for D 2/07
D put on hold 5/07
H re-files for D 9/08
WOW! trying MC 10/08

"Work like you don't need the money, dance like nobody is watching, love like you've never been hurt!"