hey Kiki, what a wonderful post! thank you so much for putting it up, wish I would've listen sooner and not have suffered so much

Quote:
If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and see your worth.....

If you keep trying to help someone who won't even try to help
themselves......


BTDT, this is my sitch in a nutshell, was holding onto my toxic H who did nothing but hurt me and wrong me no matter how much love, patience, compassion I gave him.

There is a time when enough is enough, I was feeling bad earlier today, had I said this and that at xyz times perhaps things would've been different. IT WAS HIM, he should've had the spine to fight for me and our M and our kids....


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.