Over time the rollercoaster goes to extremes less often- I am 7 months into the S, and cry less about it than I used to.
GAL and detaching help, as does time- I haven't read your threads so am not entirely familiar with your sitch. Will read when I get some time. Can you post a short summary?
OD
Walk on, walk on, with hope in your heart. And you'll never walk alone.