I am surprised that you have gotten negative feedback from other people. Do you find this thread to be more helpful?
Only on a few occasions. 99% of my experiences have been positive. I do get a lot more responses at this forum and all helpful.
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How is your H doing after his surgery? Do you think you helping him to recover has brought the two of you closer together? I can't help but ponder if him seeing you in this caretaker role helps him to build trust, integrity and respect in you.
He is still in pain, but getting around more. He drove himself to a follow-up appt. on Monday and my brother-in-law to the train station yesterday. Yesterday I asked if he wanted dinner not knowing that he had driven a few times in the past few days and he said he had already eaten, but that I should get something to eat for myself and bring it back. He also asked that I bring him dinner tonight. I hope that we are making progress/getting closer(and I think we are, in the friendship area a least) and that he is begining to see me as the woman he is/was in love with and not the fire breathing dragon lady he had previously made me out to be. lol. He has definitely been joking around with me more and more. He also said WE a few times last night as opposed to me or you and I.
How are you girl?
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