It does hurt more when our kids hurt because of the callousness and basic stupidity of these men. If your D12 realizes how unfair it was, jeez, it is maddening he's being such a jerk.
I've realized I haven't lost much when H left, neither have you. Hugs))))))))))))
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.