The LRT seems to be for spouses/sig others who have no interest in working things out, but it sounds as if he does. Perhaps you should talk to a coach she/he may disagree. I believe that you should start out giving him space, working on your 180, GAL, and attend therapy with a solution-based therapist (with or without him). Do you think that you have tried everything else the book recommends? If so then you may have cause to use the LRT, but like I said a coach or others may have an alternate approach.
How are you putting into practice Michele's advice?
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