Hi Jay, I am a WAW, who is now attempting to get my H to want to work on our R/M...but he goes and comes. It's a tough situation. A year ago in Jan, I brought two moving trucks to our home and packed everything conceivable, left nothing behind, but pictures of he and I. A few months later I realized what I had done, and reality hit and hit hard. I asked him to work on things, and like I said before he has been going back and forth ever since. He is sooo guarded. Each time he takes a baby step forward he retreats. I am happy to share more of my thoughts, or if you have and ?'s just ask. You can find my thread in the newbie section...it's called my crazy mess!!LOL!!

I wish the best for you, and your family. This is a hard place to be. Be patient with her, and calm, if anything she needs you to be a friend not a foe now. Take care of yourself, you can only control you!

Take care,
Christa


H-32
Me-29
T-10years
M-4yr (10/04)
Me- WAW 1/07
I filed for D 2/07
D put on hold 5/07
H re-files for D 9/08
WOW! trying MC 10/08

"Work like you don't need the money, dance like nobody is watching, love like you've never been hurt!"