Affair is over and WW is responding

[Snow White]

but correct me if I'm wrong, part of being an attractive mate is being able to provide for your spouse, so if she see's the reality of the situation maybe she'll find me more attractive since I can provide her a pretty decent standard of living.

I only speak for myself, but while it would be nice if my H made more money, him providing money for me has never been an issue or something I expected from him, it may be a little bit archaic to think that way. We have always shared our accounts. I do make more than my spouse and this has never been a concern of mine either.

My father made significantly more than my mother and although they have been married for over 45 years i do know that she is/was very resentful of the fact that he pointed out that he was the provider quite often and she felt it belittled her and her contribution to the household.