H did text Monday that he didn’t know when we were getting back and have d7 call him.

I swear I think he tests me.

I texted him later that we just got home and D7 was sleeping.

H texted ok.
An hour later , he texted again (very late) that he was not able to pick up D7 the following day because he had to work and he would pick her up Wed. instead and if that was ok.

Our schedule has been tues but he has been changing it weekly.

So I told H it would be better if he picked her up tues- thurs . I told him d7 had a game on tues.

H responded: No cant do ..nevermind.
How is the game going to make it easier?

I was telling him about the game for D7.But he didn’t see it that way.

So instead of texting I called him back . I
M: hey you can pick her up wed and I need you to pick her next week tues-thurs
H: Why?
M: I figure you haven’t seen her in weeks and I need you to.
H: why?
M: h I just need you to . I do not ask you why when you change the schedule . I just do
H: well, I need to know why and I knoe you are not asking ME a favor …Liz, don’t ask me for favors
M: It is not for me it is about your daughter
H: You said YOU needed me too..I have to check my schedule ..its not here
M: H you do not have a schedule
H: well I have to see if I have plans
M: ok h Just pick her up Wed
H: Thank you
M: bye

So he thinks he is doing me favors???? How do you deal with them when they treat children worse than dogs