Yes, that's true me and wife been married for over a year and we have not experienced a sexual intercourse. A little background. We got married in a traditional arranged marriage where I knew the girl only twice before i got engaged. She used to live in another country so the only time I met her after our engagement was when we were getting married. Our engagement time was miserable when I could not connect with her, I didn't felt the physical desire to be with her, and we both know that we are in trouble. But because of our strong religious ethics I decided to follow through on my commitment. We have tried to make this marriage work, I seen a doctor to make sure if there is no medical reasons and he feels that It may be psycological and would require marriage council. We are on the brink of calling it quits. We both are frustrated and I don't know what to do. I'm very religious therefore a divorce is not something I can go for. I want to make this work, but everything seems to be something I have to force. The doctor recommends me taking enhancing drugs but my wife feel if it's not natural then it is not meant for us. I feel sorry for my wife, who left her family for me and now she's left high and dry. What should I do ? Again we have not had any sex for over a year, there is no physical attraction. I still using the traditional ways to fulfill my needs (masturbation, porn) and this is killing me. Please help..Thanks