I was posting on yours when you posted on mine. I had read yours while you were still asleep but had to find the time to write more than one sentence to you (you know I've been heartbroken, don't you?).
T, don't miss the chance to figure out what is going on. This long distance issue is big enough for him to feel discouraged even if he has figured it out he made a mistake. In your sitch, I wouldn't be very distant...
