Emily, you are not a WAS!
Kevin left you!

And just because he calls when he walks around the corner from his other baby's mama's house making his empty promises to you doesn't mean you have a marriage. It has been a long time since you have had a marriage, hasn't it, Emily?

Do we need a review of all the things he has done to you since you first came to this board? More of us old posters to you have returned I see. I'm sure we can paint you a real clear picture before you get those rose-colored glasses back on.

Emily, all Kevin's smoke and mirrors aside, you have outgrown that boy.
I said that purposefully.
He is NOT a man.
Look around these boards for examples of what a good man is. Kevin is light-years away and you have two little girls that are in need of a good, strong, healthy and responsible male role model in their lives. Kevin is none of those things. The more I think about it, the more I think you should keep walking the road you've been on the last several months. Take care of yourself and your girls. Meet someone when you are ready. But unload Kevin and his baggage once and for all.