H is having affair after all

[Evie]

H can see it, but won't acknowledge it right now

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A colleaque said, 'maybe he can see it, but has already moved on'.



Jen, Lwb and Seek, thank you for your positivity and feedback, i am certainly going through a time of been quiet. I have decided on a couple of things to do with the business: a) to add my name to everything b)H is to take on more responsibilty eg the wages & get the accounts to the accountant on time (its our end of year)and c) the banking. Nothing Radical, but it gives me a bit more free time without losing a grip of things.

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Concentrate on the here and now and let the future take care of itself

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Jen - i found this quite profound, but when you think about it it is really true. I'm just slightly anxious that H may start trying to push me to making more decisions about the House etc and I know i'm not ready to do that, don't know about him.

I've just come across an email H sent me in December. He said amongst other things, that he realised loads of money, fast car, big house, and fancy holidays were not what is important in life, but that time and family were.....!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He was in the midst of his affair, how could he say something like that???

I know we're not supposed to believe anything of what they say and only half of what they do. However, He sent a load of texts at xmas that he initiated and some of the stuff he says, sounds like a very confused, sad, person. Thats why i'm confused and had hope and maybe the A has confused him even more?

x evie xxxx