Affair is over and WW is responding

[Hope4us]

Thanks Neecy. I think you're exactly correct. A few of the responses I received on the other board that are suggesting I take a hard line approach are because that's what worked for THEM. They don't know my WW and I can tell you, I know for sure if I gave her an ultimatum at this point she'd be gone.

Sometimes its hard for others to see how we're encouraged with the small things that our wayward spouses do because it's not a magic bullet kind of reaction. I just know my counselor has told me that she is acting exactly like he would think she would given our situation and I need to just keep piling up the rocks in the deep river and at some point those rocks will be at the surface and she'll cross the river.

I always loved that analogy my counselor gave me. It's easy to remember and makes so much sense to me.